If you've read my Respite thread, this question is about the same. difficult child is good with other people except easy child and I. We get ALL the abuse and garbage. Well his birthday is coming up and "Of Course" DEMANDS a party. Well, I'm so fed up with him right now that I'm in the mind to say he has to earn it.....which of course he won't. So, NO party...NO friends over. Just a small cake, easy child and I, and his presents. So would you give a party, or No party. Thanks.