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<blockquote data-quote="ksm" data-source="post: 720006" data-attributes="member: 12511"><p>I am not sure exactly what you are asking. Are you saying that Difficult Child only shows up when they know they will receive gifts and or money, and then ignore you the rest of the year? </p><p></p><p>If that is the case, I would contact them ahead of time, ask if they would like to meet for lunch, give them a nice card, or a token gift certificate, and then if it goes well, maybe increase the visits.</p><p></p><p>If they only want to come to your house and get their gifts and leave or be rude, then I wouldn't keep doing that.</p><p></p><p>I have three grands that pretty much ignore us, but expect me to do a full meal deal at Christmas, get their cash, and leave. But, I am just the step grandma, so I will continue to do it for my husband.</p><p></p><p>But I am glad when holiday season is over. Ksm</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ksm, post: 720006, member: 12511"] I am not sure exactly what you are asking. Are you saying that Difficult Child only shows up when they know they will receive gifts and or money, and then ignore you the rest of the year? If that is the case, I would contact them ahead of time, ask if they would like to meet for lunch, give them a nice card, or a token gift certificate, and then if it goes well, maybe increase the visits. If they only want to come to your house and get their gifts and leave or be rude, then I wouldn't keep doing that. I have three grands that pretty much ignore us, but expect me to do a full meal deal at Christmas, get their cash, and leave. But, I am just the step grandma, so I will continue to do it for my husband. But I am glad when holiday season is over. Ksm [/QUOTE]
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