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<blockquote data-quote="Echolette" data-source="post: 708903" data-attributes="member: 17269"><p>I love this post...wait...you can control your husband, your son, your daughter, and your daughter's boyfriend??? Can you come over to control the people in my house too??? I say this with fond recognition and all kindness. Of course you got upset about the bill. It is not at all your fault your husband escalated. It is not your fault your son came over, or screwed you with the accounts. You can't control their behavior. You can only control your own. Your being upset is not the genesis of all the crazy in the house. If you don't like acting upset that way, work on that. The rest is not your business. In fact, if you can refocus on not freaking out over the accounts (as apparently you feel you did), then you can also learn to not freak out over the toxic interactions of OTHER PEOPLE in your house.</p><p></p><p>I know you know this. I am just holding your hand while you ground yourself again.</p><p></p><p>Echolette</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Echolette, post: 708903, member: 17269"] I love this post...wait...you can control your husband, your son, your daughter, and your daughter's boyfriend??? Can you come over to control the people in my house too??? I say this with fond recognition and all kindness. Of course you got upset about the bill. It is not at all your fault your husband escalated. It is not your fault your son came over, or screwed you with the accounts. You can't control their behavior. You can only control your own. Your being upset is not the genesis of all the crazy in the house. If you don't like acting upset that way, work on that. The rest is not your business. In fact, if you can refocus on not freaking out over the accounts (as apparently you feel you did), then you can also learn to not freak out over the toxic interactions of OTHER PEOPLE in your house. I know you know this. I am just holding your hand while you ground yourself again. Echolette [/QUOTE]
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