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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 16379" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p>This has been an ongoing 'lesson', if you will, with our difficult child. She will somehow (quite easily in fact) get herself into yet another jam and then point fingers on how it was someone else's fault or someone made her do it, or "I was scared" so therefore it wasn't her free will that got her in the jam, etc.</p><p></p><p>We always try to go over the chain of events that led her to that place and gently point out how she got there of her own doing - we all have choices over how we behave and what actions we take. difficult child needs to learn this and get it down pat. There's just no telling how long it will take. I really like the idea presented by TM for Duckie. That's basically what we've done. Repeat, repeat...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 16379, member: 2211"] This has been an ongoing 'lesson', if you will, with our difficult child. She will somehow (quite easily in fact) get herself into yet another jam and then point fingers on how it was someone else's fault or someone made her do it, or "I was scared" so therefore it wasn't her free will that got her in the jam, etc. We always try to go over the chain of events that led her to that place and gently point out how she got there of her own doing - we all have choices over how we behave and what actions we take. difficult child needs to learn this and get it down pat. There's just no telling how long it will take. I really like the idea presented by TM for Duckie. That's basically what we've done. Repeat, repeat... [/QUOTE]
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