MY sons bond hearing will be on Friday morning. My husband will be going - I will not. He is going to say the truth and that he needs to stay where he is - my husband seems to really want to handle this on his own which has not always been the case - I have always been the one to be at the court hearings, etc. - this time I wont interfere - please pray for my husband to have strength and wisdom to say the right things - I told him not to bring him back home - the bondsman said he was better off where he was - also the bondsman said we owed him $450.00!!!! something about insurance - oh my goodness - we really got taken on this one! I dont know what this will hold for anyone - mygfg wrote us a letter one for his Dad and one for me - I cant even read it - I know my husband probably didnt read his - my difficult child rarely wrote to his Dad - always to me - I cant bring myself to read what I have already read million times in 8 years again and again - i will hang in - thanks for your comments - if I have frustrated someone you dont have to reply - i will put a smiley face on this one for good luck!