Thanks Fran, may look for the book. I've started to look at the future and wondering what changes we'll need to make to help him succeed. I can see some things my difficult child will have problems with - job interview being one, that problem of meeting and talking to new people and looking them in the eye. He'll be 16 in May and I've been letting him know, trying not to be too pushy, that it's the plan for him to try a part time job. I know I'll have to help with the application and all that, but the interview he's on his own. He already has said he won't like a job having to deal with people much, so waiter is out LOL. It's good he recognizes these things in himself anyway.