Book - We've Got Issues


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I subscribe to a book review website. Rarely do I find anything interesting on it, but this one caught my eye, so I though I'd share.

WE'VE GOT ISSUES: Children and Parents in the Age of Medication
Judith Warner
ISBN 978-1594487545
320 pages

Reviewed by Susan Okie
I opened Judith Warner's new book with a certain dread, fearing that I would have to slog through yet another polemic about the overuse of stimulants and other psychiatric drugs in America's children. Instead, I found a refreshing surprise: a confession by the author that she had indeed gotten a book contract and embarked on her research with that mindset, only to change her views after talking with the parents of mentally ill children. "I was erecting a whole intellectual edifice based on ignorance," admits Warner, who writes frequently for the New York Times and is also the author of "Perfect Madness: Motherhood in the Age of Anxiety."
Nowhere did Warner encounter mothers or fathers eager to medicate healthy kids for trivial reasons. Instead, she found parents struggling to find and afford decent treatment for children disabled by their symptoms or their behavior, parents who had turned to psychiatric medicines only out of desperation -- and a society that persists in stigmatizing mental illness, blames parents when kids are affected, and has done far too little to ensure that such kids can get access to treatments that have been shown to work.
Instead of an epidemic of over-treatment, Warner describes an epidemic of under-treatment of children with mental illness. "Five percent of kids in America take psychotropic drugs," she writes -- stimulants, antidepressants or other psychiatric medications -- while "five to 20 percent have psychiatric issues." (The lower fraction represents those who are extremely impaired, and the higher one includes those with at least minimal impairment.) Among the disadvantaged, the majority of mentally ill children receive no treatment at all, while many others are prescribed drugs or combinations that are inappropriate for their problems. Warner's stories attest that even belonging to a rich, well-educated family with health insurance is no guarantee that a child with autism, attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) or depression will be properly diagnosed and treated.
But what about the startling numbers: a tripling since the 1990s in the number of U.S. children receiving mental health diagnoses, a recent government estimate that 8 percent of children have ADHD, a 3,500 percent increase between 1991 and 2006 in the number of kids identified as autistic in special education programs? Aren't they evidence of over-diagnosis? Warner argues, convincingly in my view, that much of the increase in such diagnoses is explained by better recognition and understanding of children's behavioral and emotional symptoms, as well as the development of effective treatments for disorders like ADHD, depression and obsessive-compulsive disorder, and of special educational strategies and services for children with autism and dyslexia.
Children who a generation ago might have been written off as "weird" or "bad" or "retarded" now have much to gain from being evaluated by a mental health professional, so families are more likely to seek help. Diagnostic baskets have also undeniably gotten bigger: There is now a spectrum of autism disorders, and the prevalence of ADHD nearly doubled after psychiatrists expanded the diagnosis to include kids who, while not hyperactive, are so inattentive that they can't focus on schoolwork or other activities. In addition, there may well be a true increase in the frequency of disorders such as depression, anxiety and autism in children -- but to confirm and measure such an increase, we'd need evidence from serial population-wide studies that asked the same questions and used the same definitions over decades, and such studies don't exist.
Warner traces the roots of anti-psychiatry sentiment in the United States back to the social rebellion of the 1960s, but she puts the blame for stoking public distrust on the actions of some practitioners -- and especially on recent revelations of prominent psychiatrists' financial ties with the pharmaceutical industry. She condemns the dangerous, unapproved use of certain antipsychotic drugs in children and the Food and Drug Administration's slowness to act on evidence that some antidepressants increase the risk of suicide in teenagers.
But she is even more concerned about the damage done to children through failure to recognize and treat mental illness. Untreated kids with ADHD are more likely than other children to drop out of school, to have no friends, to engage in anti-social behavior and to use illicit drugs. Children with autism who don't receive appropriate treatment and interventions are far less likely to live independently as adults than those who do. Failure to recognize and treat anxiety or depression in kids may place them at higher risk for far more serious episodes of depression later.
Interweaving stories of children and families with scientific information and well-researched arguments, Warner makes a compelling case that as a society we should do much more to make mentally ill kids feel better. Among her prescriptions: better insurance coverage (including coverage of non-drug treatments like cognitive behavioral therapy), more financial support for mental health services, an increase in the number of trained child psychiatrists, a research agenda that will speed identification of the most effective psychiatric medications in children, and quality control to reduce the frequency of inappropriate diagnosis and substandard treatment. Perhaps more than anything, she has come to believe, families of kids with "issues" need love and support from the doctor treating their mentally ill child. "The idea is almost laughable, really," she writes. "But it shouldn't have to be."
Susan Okie is a physician, a former staff writer for The Washington Post and a freelance medical journalist.


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Interesting! I admit though, I chuckled when I saw the thread title and was thinking the book could be a compilation of posts from this bboard.


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Whew, it gives me some comfort to see someone who writes what we felt. I decided to ignore the rhetoric of the unknowledgeable or fear mongers about medications and look to see what my children needed. Blocking out the drama and doing the research to help your child to manage better is the best I could do to parent my child.
I hope this book reaches many and helps reduce the stigma and pressure on parents.
I doubt my difficult child noticed the controversy but it required a great deal of gumption on our part to do what's right for difficult child and not be influenced by those with
different agenda's.

Now, building on that the education system needs total revampment in my humble opinion. To not incorporate the large numbers of learning different students, it does many of our kids a
grave injustice. The perception that "how we(teaching dogma) are is good enough" is not true anymore. Or the educational system wants no outside input on how to educate unique students leaves many of our kids in marginal programs. It is to the point where education and medicine/psychiatry/psychology and other teams must be entwined to educate each child regardless if they fit the mainstream or not. It's time for the mainstream to alter it's self perception and include more differently abled students. I'll get off my soapbox now. : )
Thanks Loth.


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I bought it and am reading it now. I HIGHLY recommend it, and I think it's a great book to give to people who are either new to this whole game of life with a difficult child AND/OR anyone in your life who either doesn't understand or thinks they have all the answers about treating difficult child's.


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.....AND/OR anyone in your life who either doesn't understand or thinks they have all the answers about treating difficult child's.

Good idea- but how do you make them read it?
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Oh, maybe wrap it in some pretty paper with a big bow and say "Here, I think you'll enjoy reading this!" And leave it at that.


I'm in the middle of reading the book, too, and think it's very well-written. Judith Warner definitely gets "our" kids and us parents as well.


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What I really think is commendable about Warner is that she had the guts to admit she was wrong during her research phase and rather than write the book to fit her preconceived ideas, she wrote it to fit with the reality that her research revealed.