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bought a safe last night I was too late
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<blockquote data-quote="rejectedmom" data-source="post: 14067" data-attributes="member: 2315"><p>Grace, My son also stole from all of us and he also had no qualms about going into my very private and personal things. first I put an alarm on my door but he broke that. Then I put a deadbolt but it was a pain because I had to put down whatever I was carying to get in. It became ineffective when he found a way to jimmy it. I then had a keypad lock on my bedroom door and a safe. But if I forgot to lock up my purse he got into it. My cell phone was always going missing. He gave my expensive perfume to his girlfriend he used my cosmetics when he was into Goth. He seemed to just hang around waiting for us to slip up and not lock the bedroom door or leave our wallet or purse down somewhere and then bam he was into it. All this was BEFORE my difficult child started using drugs. By the time he was using we had the routime down. But he has cost us much. It sucks having to always try to be a step ahead of them, to always be on guard, to not be able to have your jewlery handy and when in a hurry and to have to go without it. I ended up not wearing any for years it became too stressful. There is always a safety deposit box at a bank for the thing that are valuble and that you do not use frequently. I hope your difficult child gets into the program and that you can get him safely out of your house soon. -RM</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="rejectedmom, post: 14067, member: 2315"] Grace, My son also stole from all of us and he also had no qualms about going into my very private and personal things. first I put an alarm on my door but he broke that. Then I put a deadbolt but it was a pain because I had to put down whatever I was carying to get in. It became ineffective when he found a way to jimmy it. I then had a keypad lock on my bedroom door and a safe. But if I forgot to lock up my purse he got into it. My cell phone was always going missing. He gave my expensive perfume to his girlfriend he used my cosmetics when he was into Goth. He seemed to just hang around waiting for us to slip up and not lock the bedroom door or leave our wallet or purse down somewhere and then bam he was into it. All this was BEFORE my difficult child started using drugs. By the time he was using we had the routime down. But he has cost us much. It sucks having to always try to be a step ahead of them, to always be on guard, to not be able to have your jewlery handy and when in a hurry and to have to go without it. I ended up not wearing any for years it became too stressful. There is always a safety deposit box at a bank for the thing that are valuble and that you do not use frequently. I hope your difficult child gets into the program and that you can get him safely out of your house soon. -RM [/QUOTE]
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