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<blockquote data-quote="nlj" data-source="post: 634515" data-attributes="member: 17650"><p>Interesting sideline to this thread in that it has brought up the issue of siblings and their feelings etc. They are often overlooked in the turmoil, the effect on them and the changing dynamics of the family, etc and also, in my case, how they react to their sibling in quite different ways. The sisters tend to worry, whereas the brother thinks it's all highly amusing. </p><p></p><p>Maybe we should start a separate thread about this.</p><p></p><p>Headlights, I've detached from my son and practise radical acceptance, but I don't love him any less of course, in fact I now love him unconditionally without any strings attached about how I think he should be behaving/living. I don't think it's about "loving and then un-loving", for me it's just about accepting what is and letting them get on with it, while concentrating on living your own life.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="nlj, post: 634515, member: 17650"] Interesting sideline to this thread in that it has brought up the issue of siblings and their feelings etc. They are often overlooked in the turmoil, the effect on them and the changing dynamics of the family, etc and also, in my case, how they react to their sibling in quite different ways. The sisters tend to worry, whereas the brother thinks it's all highly amusing. Maybe we should start a separate thread about this. Headlights, I've detached from my son and practise radical acceptance, but I don't love him any less of course, in fact I now love him unconditionally without any strings attached about how I think he should be behaving/living. I don't think it's about "loving and then un-loving", for me it's just about accepting what is and letting them get on with it, while concentrating on living your own life. [/QUOTE]
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