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Boundaries...Please read Copa and Cedar...please answer. Thanks.
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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 667231" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>This statement indicates you are telling the truth.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Sister has no intrinsic right to be "bugged", Serenity. Think for a minute of loving families into which a Down Syndrome child is born. </p><p></p><p>Now, think of a messed up family into which a Down Syndrome child is born.</p><p></p><p>That is the difference. The child is a child. The loving family will love him, will made allowances for his differences. The messed up family will be ashamed of him; will try to make him be "normal" and blame him when he is not.</p><p></p><p>You are very kind in your thinking about your sister I think, Serenity. You are generous regarding her shortcomings and very hard on yourself for your own perceived shortcomings. You understand why she would feel badly and so, behave badly toward you, but you excuse her bad behaviors without even seeing them as bad. It seems you believe she would be a different person if only you were more perfect. </p><p></p><p>Happy Hour here, you two.</p><p></p><p>I will finish tomorrow, Serenity.</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 667231, member: 17461"] This statement indicates you are telling the truth. Sister has no intrinsic right to be "bugged", Serenity. Think for a minute of loving families into which a Down Syndrome child is born. Now, think of a messed up family into which a Down Syndrome child is born. That is the difference. The child is a child. The loving family will love him, will made allowances for his differences. The messed up family will be ashamed of him; will try to make him be "normal" and blame him when he is not. You are very kind in your thinking about your sister I think, Serenity. You are generous regarding her shortcomings and very hard on yourself for your own perceived shortcomings. You understand why she would feel badly and so, behave badly toward you, but you excuse her bad behaviors without even seeing them as bad. It seems you believe she would be a different person if only you were more perfect. Happy Hour here, you two. I will finish tomorrow, Serenity. Cedar [/QUOTE]
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