DammitJanet
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He was supposed to be at work today so who knows now. Obviously cant get there. His "girl friend's" people wouldnt help them with any money to fix his car to get them back home. I think that was just rude. He has brought her down here at least 4 or 5 times...5 I think over this past summer and fall so she could see them and come to court and they cant help get them back to where they live? Hmmm. They also wont let him stay there.
Supposedly he is having to now wait for his paycheck to come but I think they dont get paid but every two weeks at BK and I dont think I can put up with him for two weeks. Maybe by chance he didnt get paid last week and it will come this week but then it will have to get mailed down here which will still put it coming probably no earlier than Tuesday with the holidays. I am gonna go crazy. There is no way we can afford to lend him the money and have him send it back because we have already lent him money before and he hasnt repaid us. I dont trust him to do it this time. It would be money blown and we dont have it to do that right now. If we had an extra 300 or so it would be okay but we dont.
Of course this also means we are having to feed him this entire time and he eats like crazy. I have to now make double what I normally make. He will eat as much as Tony and I combined. I dont know how I am gonna handle all this. Keyana is supposed to come spend the night with us Wednesday night and Thursday night but I dont know if that will be possible now with him here because he is using her bed. She can sleep on the couch I guess.
As we all know, I dont even do well with having to fix dinner for Tony. Now I have to do it for all of us and in front of his brother whom I dont much like. Now Tony sits out there and talks to him all evening and doesnt talk to me at all except to come in my bedroom at night and tell me its time for bed and then he falls asleep immediately. He has made some snide comments about how I am nothing like his sainted mother because they were talking about her cooking and stuff. I made the mistake of injecting that I most certainly never intended to cook that way and got lambasted for saying that. Evidently I am a lazy person who was raised not knowing what wifely duties are. Sigh.
Supposedly he is having to now wait for his paycheck to come but I think they dont get paid but every two weeks at BK and I dont think I can put up with him for two weeks. Maybe by chance he didnt get paid last week and it will come this week but then it will have to get mailed down here which will still put it coming probably no earlier than Tuesday with the holidays. I am gonna go crazy. There is no way we can afford to lend him the money and have him send it back because we have already lent him money before and he hasnt repaid us. I dont trust him to do it this time. It would be money blown and we dont have it to do that right now. If we had an extra 300 or so it would be okay but we dont.
Of course this also means we are having to feed him this entire time and he eats like crazy. I have to now make double what I normally make. He will eat as much as Tony and I combined. I dont know how I am gonna handle all this. Keyana is supposed to come spend the night with us Wednesday night and Thursday night but I dont know if that will be possible now with him here because he is using her bed. She can sleep on the couch I guess.
As we all know, I dont even do well with having to fix dinner for Tony. Now I have to do it for all of us and in front of his brother whom I dont much like. Now Tony sits out there and talks to him all evening and doesnt talk to me at all except to come in my bedroom at night and tell me its time for bed and then he falls asleep immediately. He has made some snide comments about how I am nothing like his sainted mother because they were talking about her cooking and stuff. I made the mistake of injecting that I most certainly never intended to cook that way and got lambasted for saying that. Evidently I am a lazy person who was raised not knowing what wifely duties are. Sigh.