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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 635874" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>I am so sorry JKF. After all you've been through and all you've done that woman's actions were inexcusable and in fact reprehensible. You did a stellar job of setting your boundary under severe circumstances. </p><p></p><p>Be very kind to yourself now. </p><p></p><p>I look at those kinds of things as tests.........it helps me to redefine it in my own brain...........rather then feel like a victim of the person or the circumstances, I perceive it as a test for my own growth, so that I can see how far I've come in my own recovery, in my own healthy responses........in the world of gfgdom, you would get the purple heart for the courage it took, the strength it took and the power it took for you to stand your ground. For that you can celebrate your victory, you stood your ground under absurd circumstances of judgement and ignorance and you came out a winner. That's how I would view it JKF...........celebrate how far you've come to handle it the way you did. </p><p></p><p>Sending you warm, caring thoughts today..........</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 635874, member: 13542"] I am so sorry JKF. After all you've been through and all you've done that woman's actions were inexcusable and in fact reprehensible. You did a stellar job of setting your boundary under severe circumstances. Be very kind to yourself now. I look at those kinds of things as tests.........it helps me to redefine it in my own brain...........rather then feel like a victim of the person or the circumstances, I perceive it as a test for my own growth, so that I can see how far I've come in my own recovery, in my own healthy responses........in the world of gfgdom, you would get the purple heart for the courage it took, the strength it took and the power it took for you to stand your ground. For that you can celebrate your victory, you stood your ground under absurd circumstances of judgement and ignorance and you came out a winner. That's how I would view it JKF...........celebrate how far you've come to handle it the way you did. Sending you warm, caring thoughts today.......... [/QUOTE]
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