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<blockquote data-quote="PennyFromTheBlock" data-source="post: 634112" data-attributes="member: 18271"><p>Echo-</p><p></p><p>I hear what you are saying- and maybe I didn't say it right. It's not that I see it as forcing him into homelessness, it's how HE will see it. Hence, the threat to do damage.</p><p></p><p>It's times like THIS that I feel weak and stupid. </p><p></p><p>Cedar- </p><p></p><p>He has nowhere to go. He's stolen from family- so that's out. His uninvolved other parent isn't interested in helping in anyway.</p><p></p><p>Wait- I say he has nowhere to go, but he does. I just don't know where. I suppose there's the part of me- the part that makes me feel like a little girl trying to figure out a grown up problem- that keeps waiting on that epiphany to happen and at some point I've got to realize it won't happen.</p><p></p><p>/sigh. </p><p></p><p>Another part of me is I've avoided calling him or texting him because contact breeds contact. You know? If I send him a text saying to get his things out of the house- then he'll being this tirade that I'm just not even up to ignoring, etc.</p><p></p><p>I have to do something- this mess is costing me money unnecessarily. I need to move on with MY life and while it's easy to type that- it's just....I don't know......unfair.</p><p></p><p>Thanks for listening.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="PennyFromTheBlock, post: 634112, member: 18271"] Echo- I hear what you are saying- and maybe I didn't say it right. It's not that I see it as forcing him into homelessness, it's how HE will see it. Hence, the threat to do damage. It's times like THIS that I feel weak and stupid. Cedar- He has nowhere to go. He's stolen from family- so that's out. His uninvolved other parent isn't interested in helping in anyway. Wait- I say he has nowhere to go, but he does. I just don't know where. I suppose there's the part of me- the part that makes me feel like a little girl trying to figure out a grown up problem- that keeps waiting on that epiphany to happen and at some point I've got to realize it won't happen. /sigh. Another part of me is I've avoided calling him or texting him because contact breeds contact. You know? If I send him a text saying to get his things out of the house- then he'll being this tirade that I'm just not even up to ignoring, etc. I have to do something- this mess is costing me money unnecessarily. I need to move on with MY life and while it's easy to type that- it's just....I don't know......unfair. Thanks for listening. [/QUOTE]
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