trinityroyal
Well-Known Member
The Background:
Ever since the Monster Tot twins were born I've observed Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD)-ish behaviours in both of them. Different ones from each, but fairly consistent with mine, difficult child's and Little PCs. However, since Tyrannosaur's speech has gotten more fluent over the last several months I've noticed a quirk he has that I haven't seen in the other children.
My tiny-giant Tyrannosaur seems to have difficulty distinguishing Point-of-View, as in whether something is happening to him or to someone else. Here are a few examples:
He falls down and bangs his knee. He then looks at me and says, "Are you okay Mummy?"
He sees a car from husband's model collection, and says (referring to himself), "He likes the car."
Tyrantina calls him from the other room. He says, "I'm coming B." (Using his own name)
If he's been upset and has been comforted, he says, "Do you feel better?" to whoever has been comforting him.
My Questions:
I feel a bit out of my depth with this, as it's not something that any of the other children have done and I have no experience with it.
Can point of view be taught?
Are there specific therapies for this?
Will it work itself out eventually if I just keep reinforcing, "You're B. Twin sister is P. Big Brothers are A and M, Big Sister is C." etc.?
Have any of you parents of children on the Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) spectrum run into something like this? Any advice?
I haven't gone down the diagnostic road with the twins yet, as their Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD)-ish tendencies haven't impaired their development up until now. Also, at 2 1/2, they're a bit young for diagnostics to be clear-cut. But I'm wondering whether this will be something that may cause difficulties for Tyrannosaur down the road.
Honestly, I don't really know what I'm asking, other than: What do you think?
Thanks,
Trinity
Ever since the Monster Tot twins were born I've observed Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD)-ish behaviours in both of them. Different ones from each, but fairly consistent with mine, difficult child's and Little PCs. However, since Tyrannosaur's speech has gotten more fluent over the last several months I've noticed a quirk he has that I haven't seen in the other children.
My tiny-giant Tyrannosaur seems to have difficulty distinguishing Point-of-View, as in whether something is happening to him or to someone else. Here are a few examples:
He falls down and bangs his knee. He then looks at me and says, "Are you okay Mummy?"
He sees a car from husband's model collection, and says (referring to himself), "He likes the car."
Tyrantina calls him from the other room. He says, "I'm coming B." (Using his own name)
If he's been upset and has been comforted, he says, "Do you feel better?" to whoever has been comforting him.
My Questions:
I feel a bit out of my depth with this, as it's not something that any of the other children have done and I have no experience with it.
Can point of view be taught?
Are there specific therapies for this?
Will it work itself out eventually if I just keep reinforcing, "You're B. Twin sister is P. Big Brothers are A and M, Big Sister is C." etc.?
Have any of you parents of children on the Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) spectrum run into something like this? Any advice?
I haven't gone down the diagnostic road with the twins yet, as their Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD)-ish tendencies haven't impaired their development up until now. Also, at 2 1/2, they're a bit young for diagnostics to be clear-cut. But I'm wondering whether this will be something that may cause difficulties for Tyrannosaur down the road.
Honestly, I don't really know what I'm asking, other than: What do you think?
Thanks,
Trinity