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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 691270" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>So ready and Heidi, adoptive mom here.</p><p></p><p>Fetal alcohol spectrum is organic brain damage that affects cognitive function, common sense, memory and these people have a real disconnect, that they can't help, between understanding right from wrong. Love can't change the abuse suffered before birth by birth mothers drinking. And although this really isn't your sons fault, it's not your fault either. He may not understand that there are supports out there that can help him. And he is probably too erratic to live at home. again, not your fault. The adoption workers sure don't tell us about the possible issues we will face. Mine never did, at least.</p><p></p><p>I am so sorry your son is in your town. That has to be gut wrenching. There should be safe sheltered care for an adult with your sons challenges, but there is not and it makes me sick.</p><p></p><p>Try to find peace. You have done it all with limited resources. Hugs for your hurting heart.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 691270, member: 1550"] So ready and Heidi, adoptive mom here. Fetal alcohol spectrum is organic brain damage that affects cognitive function, common sense, memory and these people have a real disconnect, that they can't help, between understanding right from wrong. Love can't change the abuse suffered before birth by birth mothers drinking. And although this really isn't your sons fault, it's not your fault either. He may not understand that there are supports out there that can help him. And he is probably too erratic to live at home. again, not your fault. The adoption workers sure don't tell us about the possible issues we will face. Mine never did, at least. I am so sorry your son is in your town. That has to be gut wrenching. There should be safe sheltered care for an adult with your sons challenges, but there is not and it makes me sick. Try to find peace. You have done it all with limited resources. Hugs for your hurting heart. [/QUOTE]
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