I dunno JJJ. I DO know Katie can not handle the kids with M not in the house. It can get awfully bad with Alex, especially (he has a tendency toward violence), even with M in the house. If I were to lay odds......income would play a role. I know that sounds harsh, but this girl whether due to anxiety or whatever reasons will not look for work. Currently M is 1/3 of the household income, Alex is another 1/3, and her mother is the last 1/3. Whichever is more profitable, will be the way she jumps. But then again, M has an unbelievable hold on her........so, it's not really something we'll know until it comes to making that decision.