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<blockquote data-quote="sooooo tired" data-source="post: 647877" data-attributes="member: 18764"><p>Thank you for your post !! I just love this site !! I am starting to think I'm normal rather than a guilt ridden enabler. I don't do much for them anymore, but I do provide for my little 3 year old. It is not hard to say no to my seventeen year old grandson because he is working now and spends his money as soon as he gets his hands on it. I have made sure he has had all the necessities his whole life. Clothes shoes, school supplies, entertainment, but now he only calls when he wants something, him and his brother live really close to me and they never offer to shovel my snow, stop by and see me....nothing! I bought my daughter a 30.00 cell phone because she is at home alone alot with no car and has the baby. I am afraid if something happens to him she wont be able to get help. But of course now I am paying for minutes each month because she doesn't have any money. I only buy minimal minutes but once again I am sucked in because of the baby. It doesn't matter what advice I give her she shoots it all down. I told her to get on medications she says Im never taking medications again...I don't like the way they make me feel. She says she cant stand her boyfriend and keeps threatening to take the baby and go to a shelter, hoping I will beg her not to go and let her move in with me.....don't worry that's NOT going to happen! I just cringe every time I see its her on the phone because I know alls im going to hear is how bad her life is.....it is so frustrating !!!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="sooooo tired, post: 647877, member: 18764"] Thank you for your post !! I just love this site !! I am starting to think I'm normal rather than a guilt ridden enabler. I don't do much for them anymore, but I do provide for my little 3 year old. It is not hard to say no to my seventeen year old grandson because he is working now and spends his money as soon as he gets his hands on it. I have made sure he has had all the necessities his whole life. Clothes shoes, school supplies, entertainment, but now he only calls when he wants something, him and his brother live really close to me and they never offer to shovel my snow, stop by and see me....nothing! I bought my daughter a 30.00 cell phone because she is at home alone alot with no car and has the baby. I am afraid if something happens to him she wont be able to get help. But of course now I am paying for minutes each month because she doesn't have any money. I only buy minimal minutes but once again I am sucked in because of the baby. It doesn't matter what advice I give her she shoots it all down. I told her to get on medications she says Im never taking medications again...I don't like the way they make me feel. She says she cant stand her boyfriend and keeps threatening to take the baby and go to a shelter, hoping I will beg her not to go and let her move in with me.....don't worry that's NOT going to happen! I just cringe every time I see its her on the phone because I know alls im going to hear is how bad her life is.....it is so frustrating !!!!! [/QUOTE]
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