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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 640319" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Actually, social services doesn't make final decisions in child guardianship. A judge does. SS is putting your grandson in great danger, especially if your daughter takes him with her everywhere. He is probably seeing things he shouldn't and hanging around with possible abusers. You can't protect him, no matter how hard you try, if he is with her all the time.</p><p></p><p>If it were me, I would still contact a family lawyer. I was a foster mom and adopted once from social services. Inept is thy name. They want the kids to stay with the mother even if the mother has broken every bone in the child's body. In fact, this actually happened once and the foster family wanted to adopt the boy as they nursed him back to health and loved him very much. But, nope. Social Services said the mother was "rehabilitated" and gave him back to her after she had slammed him against a wall like a baseball when he was only an infant. Three months later she got tired of him and gave him back to social services, but did they give him to the family that already loved him? Nope.</p><p></p><p>By then he was a mess and the second family decided they didn't want him so they finally gave him to the family who had always loved him, but he was never the same loving boy by then.</p><p></p><p>I would see if you could work around them. Their ideas of what is best for the child are often very questionable. We quit foster parenting because it was so obvious that the kids were not being taken good care of and that the decisions social services made were often harmful, if not bizarre. In my opinion, they are certainly not looking out for your grandson's best interests.</p><p></p><p>Hugs and good luck!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 640319, member: 1550"] Actually, social services doesn't make final decisions in child guardianship. A judge does. SS is putting your grandson in great danger, especially if your daughter takes him with her everywhere. He is probably seeing things he shouldn't and hanging around with possible abusers. You can't protect him, no matter how hard you try, if he is with her all the time. If it were me, I would still contact a family lawyer. I was a foster mom and adopted once from social services. Inept is thy name. They want the kids to stay with the mother even if the mother has broken every bone in the child's body. In fact, this actually happened once and the foster family wanted to adopt the boy as they nursed him back to health and loved him very much. But, nope. Social Services said the mother was "rehabilitated" and gave him back to her after she had slammed him against a wall like a baseball when he was only an infant. Three months later she got tired of him and gave him back to social services, but did they give him to the family that already loved him? Nope. By then he was a mess and the second family decided they didn't want him so they finally gave him to the family who had always loved him, but he was never the same loving boy by then. I would see if you could work around them. Their ideas of what is best for the child are often very questionable. We quit foster parenting because it was so obvious that the kids were not being taken good care of and that the decisions social services made were often harmful, if not bizarre. In my opinion, they are certainly not looking out for your grandson's best interests. Hugs and good luck!!! [/QUOTE]
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