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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 671629" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>See, I think M feels responsible for everything. When I tell him something, about an idea, I think he jumps to the feeling that he is responsible, that I am asking him to take responsible for things to turn out well. He feels pressure. It is not necessarily that he needs to dominate, but it is that too.</p><p></p><p>Yes and no. He loves his sister and he likes her here.</p><p></p><p>I think he has lived his whole life long with a lot of family, and it is more natural for him to have the house full, although we both appreciate the simplicity of being us together.</p><p></p><p>The downside: I think he thinks we gossip and that it will come to no good, in particular, that I will be hurt. M's sister is very strong and confident and well-defended. I, more sensitive. And I give her power because she knows all of his children, his wife, and his whole story for 60 years. I defer to her "expertise" too much. This is M's worry, I think.</p><p></p><p>COPA</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 671629, member: 18958"] See, I think M feels responsible for everything. When I tell him something, about an idea, I think he jumps to the feeling that he is responsible, that I am asking him to take responsible for things to turn out well. He feels pressure. It is not necessarily that he needs to dominate, but it is that too. Yes and no. He loves his sister and he likes her here. I think he has lived his whole life long with a lot of family, and it is more natural for him to have the house full, although we both appreciate the simplicity of being us together. The downside: I think he thinks we gossip and that it will come to no good, in particular, that I will be hurt. M's sister is very strong and confident and well-defended. I, more sensitive. And I give her power because she knows all of his children, his wife, and his whole story for 60 years. I defer to her "expertise" too much. This is M's worry, I think. COPA [/QUOTE]
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