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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 671689" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>That is a compliment I think Copa, and a testament, not only to your strength but to the intensity of M's feelings for you. In a family where women assume traditional roles, "high maintenance and difficult" would not be possible.</p><p></p><p>The sister must be as curious about you as you are, about her.</p><p></p><p>Speaking as she did, using the words that she did, indicates that she is honest and not seeking to please. I am forever being drawn to women like that. I know where I stand.</p><p></p><p>So I think I like the sister very much.</p><p></p><p>A difficult, high maintenance woman who is beloved would be a woman whose value superceded all expectations. Fascinating, like the way a crystal turns in the sun, flashing light and color.</p><p></p><p>Something precious.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>She may have been talking about the fact that in her life, neither self-indulgence nor self-sufficiency would be allowed. In those ways, she is not her own. You are. Not following any of the traditional roles, yet her brother cherishes his life with you.</p><p></p><p>The more I think of those words M's sister used, the more I like that she said that, without deception or flowery words. I think a wonderful friendship could develop. An honest relationship.</p><p></p><p>D H mom and sisters are like that, Copa.</p><p></p><p>Could it be that what she meant, when she named M weak, was that in their culture, the woman should be dominated?</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 671689, member: 17461"] That is a compliment I think Copa, and a testament, not only to your strength but to the intensity of M's feelings for you. In a family where women assume traditional roles, "high maintenance and difficult" would not be possible. The sister must be as curious about you as you are, about her. Speaking as she did, using the words that she did, indicates that she is honest and not seeking to please. I am forever being drawn to women like that. I know where I stand. So I think I like the sister very much. A difficult, high maintenance woman who is beloved would be a woman whose value superceded all expectations. Fascinating, like the way a crystal turns in the sun, flashing light and color. Something precious. She may have been talking about the fact that in her life, neither self-indulgence nor self-sufficiency would be allowed. In those ways, she is not her own. You are. Not following any of the traditional roles, yet her brother cherishes his life with you. The more I think of those words M's sister used, the more I like that she said that, without deception or flowery words. I think a wonderful friendship could develop. An honest relationship. D H mom and sisters are like that, Copa. Could it be that what she meant, when she named M weak, was that in their culture, the woman should be dominated? Cedar [/QUOTE]
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