Today i picked up cherub from school. She was very naughty all day. Whenever she was asked to go to the batthroom, tantrum. last week she locked herself in the toilet and the aide couldn't persuade her to come out. Only when the principal came along with her clickety shoes did she emerge. This is not unusual. She won't comply for any of the other teachers most of the time. The principal/teacher has to frequently leave her class to get cherub to comply. today the principal/teacher is away. Everytime she was asked to do a task, she would refuse and be stubborn. The teachers don't know how to make her do what they ask. So, when she got in the car, I just simply said, I heard she was naughty in school, so she didn't get to have a special sticker today. I hadn't actually made any deal with her about that, but she still got the message (I think). So, tomorrow when she goes to school, I might make this deal with her. At home, she was non compliant for bathroom requests. That is to say, rag doll syndrome, whining and refusing. Until physically pointed in the direction of the toilet. I was a little tired tonight, so I really couldn't care much about it, apart from the usual, don't forget to wipe, make sure you're clean.... Every couple minutes there is a call 'aunty trish, this or that' i do try to be patient. If I could magically solve this medical problem, maybe the other things would fall into place..... And then there is the pressure from bio mum... but that's another story.