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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 50119" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>klmno...I wouldnt listen to much of what your mother and brother are telling you as being truthful. Number one...do you remember that old game of Telephone? Its where one person whispers something into the first persons ear and they whisper it on down the line? At the end it is never what started out.</p><p></p><p>I can give you my opinion of what I think is going on in your case but that would be just exactly that...an opinion. I have no personal information or way to gain access to real information. From reading that link I put up above it and the experience I have with dealing with years of difficult child behaviors...it sounds to me like what is going to happen is that social services is going to request that your son be released back to you with intensive home services. They may ask that they retain "custody" of him for a certain period of time to make sure that everything is being followed...or they may not. The CHINS petition may fall completely on him and provide you with services to open doors that you could not access on your own. Sometimes that is necessary. </p><p></p><p>Like I told someone else on another thread, when these kids have complex and severe mental health problems they need serious interventions. They can be served if you can fight your way to find the services that are there to help them. The problem is those services can be buried in bureaucracy. I had to knock on so many doors I had bleeding knuckles.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 50119, member: 1514"] klmno...I wouldnt listen to much of what your mother and brother are telling you as being truthful. Number one...do you remember that old game of Telephone? Its where one person whispers something into the first persons ear and they whisper it on down the line? At the end it is never what started out. I can give you my opinion of what I think is going on in your case but that would be just exactly that...an opinion. I have no personal information or way to gain access to real information. From reading that link I put up above it and the experience I have with dealing with years of difficult child behaviors...it sounds to me like what is going to happen is that social services is going to request that your son be released back to you with intensive home services. They may ask that they retain "custody" of him for a certain period of time to make sure that everything is being followed...or they may not. The CHINS petition may fall completely on him and provide you with services to open doors that you could not access on your own. Sometimes that is necessary. Like I told someone else on another thread, when these kids have complex and severe mental health problems they need serious interventions. They can be served if you can fight your way to find the services that are there to help them. The problem is those services can be buried in bureaucracy. I had to knock on so many doors I had bleeding knuckles. [/QUOTE]
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