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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 642638" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>Your son is very cruel and cutting in the way he communicates with you. I remember your posting that he had asked something about whether you or husband were in Hell, yet.</p><p></p><p>It was awful.</p><p></p><p>We are so vulnerable to them.</p><p></p><p>I just read <u>Dangerous Personalities</u>, by Joe Navarro. He is a former FBI profiler. He describes and then, provides checklists for four of the most dangerous personality types, along with anecdotal reports of the kinds of emotional, physical or financial damage they do to strangers, to their children, to their parents and extended family. I found it helpful. It is so important that we not absorb the toxicity. Learning about the patterns of behavior that go with certain personalities freed me from some of the hurt of it. It really wasn't me, it wasn't anything I did or did not do. There are people who hurt others ~ even, and maybe most especially, those who love and are therefore vulnerable to them, on purpose.</p><p></p><p>The Menendaz boys are in this book.</p><p></p><p>Do you remember, they murdered their parents and then, lied about them to justify the murders.</p><p></p><p>It is better to know. </p><p></p><p>Sometimes, reading material like this can help us make sense of what it was that happened to our families. I am sorry for the pain and the loneliness of it. A cruise is a great idea! Just the thing to bring your mojo back.</p><p></p><p>:O) </p><p></p><p>Cedar</p><p></p><p></p><p>.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 642638, member: 17461"] Your son is very cruel and cutting in the way he communicates with you. I remember your posting that he had asked something about whether you or husband were in Hell, yet. It was awful. We are so vulnerable to them. I just read [U]Dangerous Personalities[/U], by Joe Navarro. He is a former FBI profiler. He describes and then, provides checklists for four of the most dangerous personality types, along with anecdotal reports of the kinds of emotional, physical or financial damage they do to strangers, to their children, to their parents and extended family. I found it helpful. It is so important that we not absorb the toxicity. Learning about the patterns of behavior that go with certain personalities freed me from some of the hurt of it. It really wasn't me, it wasn't anything I did or did not do. There are people who hurt others ~ even, and maybe most especially, those who love and are therefore vulnerable to them, on purpose. The Menendaz boys are in this book. Do you remember, they murdered their parents and then, lied about them to justify the murders. It is better to know. Sometimes, reading material like this can help us make sense of what it was that happened to our families. I am sorry for the pain and the loneliness of it. A cruise is a great idea! Just the thing to bring your mojo back. :O) Cedar . [/QUOTE]
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