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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 761440" data-attributes="member: 4152"><p>Totally agree about the United front.</p><p></p><p>A teeny tiny potential exception is if what your son is saying has some merit. And then I would gave a Frank discussion with your husband snd see if he would honestly work on his shortcomings. And consider some teeny tiny compromise, but with total honesty. But see sentence number one. Of utmost importance. And never forget it.</p><p></p><p>Make nice with your son as much as you are reasonably able to. You need to respect his boundaries especially if they are reasonable. (Doesn’t particularly seem that way right this very moment. It might change. Maybe greatly limit interaction with son and father and somewhat limit your interaction with them. But no lying or sneaking around).</p><p></p><p>He should respect your boundaries as well. And not threaten. Sadly, he has a bit of the upper hand now that the new baby is here. Be kind to the wife/mother.</p><p></p><p>Reread what the others have written. Great stuff. Hard to add to that.</p><p></p><p>Agree…step back a bit. (((Hugs))) You will figure it out, even though profoundly difficult. More hugs….</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 761440, member: 4152"] Totally agree about the United front. A teeny tiny potential exception is if what your son is saying has some merit. And then I would gave a Frank discussion with your husband snd see if he would honestly work on his shortcomings. And consider some teeny tiny compromise, but with total honesty. But see sentence number one. Of utmost importance. And never forget it. Make nice with your son as much as you are reasonably able to. You need to respect his boundaries especially if they are reasonable. (Doesn’t particularly seem that way right this very moment. It might change. Maybe greatly limit interaction with son and father and somewhat limit your interaction with them. But no lying or sneaking around). He should respect your boundaries as well. And not threaten. Sadly, he has a bit of the upper hand now that the new baby is here. Be kind to the wife/mother. Reread what the others have written. Great stuff. Hard to add to that. Agree…step back a bit. (((Hugs))) You will figure it out, even though profoundly difficult. More hugs…. [/QUOTE]
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