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<blockquote data-quote="Gone" data-source="post: 641655"><p>I don't feel upset about what you said about my difficult child Midwest Mom , she is not thinking straight at present and has times of calm and order in her life , followed by some type of drama and bad choices etc</p><p></p><p>What DOES hurt and cuts like a knife is the idea of me LOSING my GS and him being ADOPTED after all I have done to keep him safe , work on myself and my home , the peace calm and stability here when I am away from my difficult child especially - I KNOW I could give him a good home for life if neccessary and NO ONE could love him like I do - I have loved him from day 1 I set my eyes on him , the bond we have between us is indescribabale so are you saying it would be BETTER for him if he was adopted by a stranger who grows to love him , that is the easy bit loving him because he is so adorable but what makes you think a foster or adoptive carer would take BETTER care of him than me who knows him through and through and can take very good care of him</p><p></p><p>SS have not said an ''out and out NO'' to me , they said I have not been ruled out</p><p></p><p>So SURELY there is some hope for me?</p><p></p><p>I was surprised and hurt you mentioned adoption , especially after all I have been through and done for him thus far</p><p></p><p>I have been as firm as a poker with my difficult child and know I can offer him a secure and happy home here </p><p></p><p>Please don't forget that my heart and aim is to have him here if my difficult child cannot manage and the foster care is supposed to be a temporary solution alone</p><p></p><p>It really hurts me that you have ruled me out and I hope to God SS don't do the same! <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/felttip/angry-very.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":angry-very:" title="angry-very :angry-very:" data-shortname=":angry-very:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Gone, post: 641655"] I don't feel upset about what you said about my difficult child Midwest Mom , she is not thinking straight at present and has times of calm and order in her life , followed by some type of drama and bad choices etc What DOES hurt and cuts like a knife is the idea of me LOSING my GS and him being ADOPTED after all I have done to keep him safe , work on myself and my home , the peace calm and stability here when I am away from my difficult child especially - I KNOW I could give him a good home for life if neccessary and NO ONE could love him like I do - I have loved him from day 1 I set my eyes on him , the bond we have between us is indescribabale so are you saying it would be BETTER for him if he was adopted by a stranger who grows to love him , that is the easy bit loving him because he is so adorable but what makes you think a foster or adoptive carer would take BETTER care of him than me who knows him through and through and can take very good care of him SS have not said an ''out and out NO'' to me , they said I have not been ruled out So SURELY there is some hope for me? I was surprised and hurt you mentioned adoption , especially after all I have been through and done for him thus far I have been as firm as a poker with my difficult child and know I can offer him a secure and happy home here Please don't forget that my heart and aim is to have him here if my difficult child cannot manage and the foster care is supposed to be a temporary solution alone It really hurts me that you have ruled me out and I hope to God SS don't do the same! :angry-very: [/QUOTE]
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