Ladies, thank you so much for your words of encouragement. You know sometime there is no good guy and no bad guy, just two people with different paths to take. I genuinely like my husband. He is a nice guy. But that is where it ends. And right now I can't imagine living like roommates the rest of my life. He has accepted my choice. He is being really nice--because after all, he is the nicest guy I know. We are talking and handling things in a mature, adult manner. I'm not angry. He's not angry. He is hurt. But he can get over hurt. And he seems to understand that this is more about me than about him. So, that's it for now. We've got to decide on living situations---his sister---who is one nut short of a pecan roll---is going to start WWIII if he lets me keep the house. But, I can afford the payment and he can't. Jana will stay with me if I stay here or go with me if I go somewhere else. I've had the offer of a friend's guest house if I need to stay there. I've got some other friends with property who will let me stay if I need to. So, I'm fine. It's not going to be easy. We've been married 23 years. But, I think we will both do our best to make this as painless as possible.