It's incredible how much a little sleep and some comforting words can help. Thank you both. gcvmom, I'd be really interested to hear more from you regarding any possible links and medication interactions with Crohn's and ADHD. Smallworld, I hope it's ok to answer your questions here:
What kind of doctor diagnosed your son? What kind of doctor is treating him?
A child psychiatrist, and I think basically all she cares about is what medication to use. We are looking to find him a counselor or a behaviour modification specialist but the onlt one we can find close by is out of network.
How long has he been on Strattera and Daytrana? Are things better, worse or about the same with these medications?
He's been on for over a year, and it's night and day. In fact, in a fit of guilt and doubt we weaned him off the Strattera a few months ago, and immediately weaned him right back on when we saw the results. And yesterday, I forgot to put his patch on and it was the horrible day of the phone call from his boyfriend's mom asking him not to return.
How does he do in school, both academically and with peers?
He is at the top of his class academically in all areas except handwriting and social skills. His teacher and I devised a secret point system to try and help him since he is so praise-centric that worked well.
Any sensory issues (sensitivity to food textures or clothing tags, for example)?
Nothing severe enough that I've ever noticed, but he does have allergies and so is on Zytrec.
Any speech or developmental delays?
Just those social skills I may have mentioned
Any mental health issues or substance abuse in the family tree?
I am on Wellbutrin for depression and it's been ongoing for 17 years or so. My husband has issues that may or may not be diagnosable but include very poor anger management.
In my reading of other posts I've seen melatonin mentioned over and over again. My husband uses it religiously but I've never considered it for my son. His psychiatrist seems to think the benefits of Clonidine are twofold - helping him sleep at night (which can be an issue) and helping with the anger management. I just can't imagine that a 7 year old taking all these medications won't have some huge negative effect down the road and while we were taking the easy road during his childhood he's going to have to deal with the consequences later in life. Sigh. I'm sure you know what I'm feeling.