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College daughter is prostituting, I don’t want her home for Christmas
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 725517" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>welcome rosey. i am so sorry for your pain. i have only a few minutes but wanted to offer support and my vote of confidence in you and your instincts.</p><p></p><p>when our kids use our support to abuse themselves and others we find we need to withdraw it. it sounds like your daughter is doing both.</p><p></p><p>did you consent that she come home for xmas? </p><p></p><p>that is an elephant in your living room of major proportions, i think. </p><p></p><p>i will say my view: bringing her home offers the appearance of consent.</p><p></p><p>to me, there needs to be a choice offered to her: our support equals broad adherence to our expectations and values. this implies agreement and communication with your spouse. </p><p></p><p>there are conditions. her choice. prostitution while not illegal everywhere is frequently considered to be dangerous and degrading. you have every right to your view and conditions.</p><p></p><p>cruelty and abuse are near universally condemned.</p><p></p><p>i do not see how living this way is consistent with the loving embrace and help of parents...in their home, especially. </p><p></p><p>that is my view. </p><p></p><p>of course you feel horrible. who would not?</p><p></p><p>welcome. i hope you stay with us. i am so sorry.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 725517, member: 18958"] welcome rosey. i am so sorry for your pain. i have only a few minutes but wanted to offer support and my vote of confidence in you and your instincts. when our kids use our support to abuse themselves and others we find we need to withdraw it. it sounds like your daughter is doing both. did you consent that she come home for xmas? that is an elephant in your living room of major proportions, i think. i will say my view: bringing her home offers the appearance of consent. to me, there needs to be a choice offered to her: our support equals broad adherence to our expectations and values. this implies agreement and communication with your spouse. there are conditions. her choice. prostitution while not illegal everywhere is frequently considered to be dangerous and degrading. you have every right to your view and conditions. cruelty and abuse are near universally condemned. i do not see how living this way is consistent with the loving embrace and help of parents...in their home, especially. that is my view. of course you feel horrible. who would not? welcome. i hope you stay with us. i am so sorry. [/QUOTE]
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