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<blockquote data-quote="Sunlight" data-source="post: 36008" data-attributes="member: 97"><p>wow my son did a lot of that stuff too but I would not have paid a lawyer or bailed him out at all. my son also did a drug deal for the cops when he was 18 and the guy he narc'd on still terrifies him. he sleeps with a baseball bat under his bead. No one should ever narc for the cops. they cannot protect you later one. sigh.</p><p></p><p>your son is learning he can victimize you big time and you will rescue him. it is time he faced the music. his theft at your home should not be overlooked. </p><p></p><p>my son is almost 24 and lost his license til he is 34 for three DUIs under age 21. he also spent over two years in three different jails for not paying those fines or appearing in court, meanwhile continuing to carouse, cause chaos and defy the law. the law will catch up to your son. </p><p></p><p>I can understand your fear for him and wanting to help him. the way you have been trying to help has not worked. try something new. </p><p>read these two books-get them at the library:</p><p></p><p>codependent no more by melody beattie</p><p></p><p>boundaries by townsend and cloud</p><p></p><p>they both opened my eyes to being a stronger more toughlove type of mom. I still love my son but I cannot and will not let him misbehave while I provide a roof and food. sigh.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Sunlight, post: 36008, member: 97"] wow my son did a lot of that stuff too but I would not have paid a lawyer or bailed him out at all. my son also did a drug deal for the cops when he was 18 and the guy he narc'd on still terrifies him. he sleeps with a baseball bat under his bead. No one should ever narc for the cops. they cannot protect you later one. sigh. your son is learning he can victimize you big time and you will rescue him. it is time he faced the music. his theft at your home should not be overlooked. my son is almost 24 and lost his license til he is 34 for three DUIs under age 21. he also spent over two years in three different jails for not paying those fines or appearing in court, meanwhile continuing to carouse, cause chaos and defy the law. the law will catch up to your son. I can understand your fear for him and wanting to help him. the way you have been trying to help has not worked. try something new. read these two books-get them at the library: codependent no more by melody beattie boundaries by townsend and cloud they both opened my eyes to being a stronger more toughlove type of mom. I still love my son but I cannot and will not let him misbehave while I provide a roof and food. sigh. [/QUOTE]
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