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<blockquote data-quote="pacific ocean" data-source="post: 705246" data-attributes="member: 21010"><p>Continuing...</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>We have not idea. The Difficult Child has not told us for this one and as well as others in the past. It could be the cost for the ER charges from the summer and in the fall term. She said she went there twice already when she was still open with me in early Oct. It could also be for food and/or various entertainment.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>The Difficult Child, who seems to be very threatened by father's email, addressed to me the email to him. This is what she wrote in the latest email: </p><p></p><p>" I really want you to understand that it is literally not legally possible for you to not support my education.</p><p></p><p>(the University's website address inserted)</p><p></p><p>This is an infographic showing all of the ways that I may be considered an independent student. Unfortunately, I do not fit any of these categories. The closest one that I may be able to achieve is being emancipated, but I really don't want to do that because I really hope that we'll be able to connect better in the future, and that we will be able to share important days in both of our lives together."</p><p></p><p>The rest of the email is like a love letter, how important we have been to her, I loved you and I love you... </p><p></p><p>She could have gone to the uni with a great package since she has an excellent academic record as well as social activities. But she wanted a brand name. We weren't sure if we could really afford it until we saw the package from the school. It was not surprising so we let her attend this current one in New England. She told me the school is full of rich kids whose parents pay the entire tuition. She was complaining how she had to work on campus because we are poor. Well, let her learn and be really independent since she claims her full independent status from us by not contacting us at all nor listening to any of our advice on her treatment/recovery. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>I read somewhere you have to be 24 to be eligible for the state aid. She is turning 21 next summer. </p><p>We will write to the University to explain in our situation, see what they say and go from there.</p><p></p><p>When she left home for this man she met in the internet just before she was onto college (she left home because she hated being with us), we could have made a decision not to send her the school overseas. We are a loss what to do for her right now, however, have all the regrets to have come this far... but had it really changed our situation, no one knows. </p><p></p><p>Thank you for thinking with me. We will spend many hours writing email to different places. How fun, huh? How sad...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="pacific ocean, post: 705246, member: 21010"] Continuing... We have not idea. The Difficult Child has not told us for this one and as well as others in the past. It could be the cost for the ER charges from the summer and in the fall term. She said she went there twice already when she was still open with me in early Oct. It could also be for food and/or various entertainment. The Difficult Child, who seems to be very threatened by father's email, addressed to me the email to him. This is what she wrote in the latest email: " I really want you to understand that it is literally not legally possible for you to not support my education. (the University's website address inserted) This is an infographic showing all of the ways that I may be considered an independent student. Unfortunately, I do not fit any of these categories. The closest one that I may be able to achieve is being emancipated, but I really don't want to do that because I really hope that we'll be able to connect better in the future, and that we will be able to share important days in both of our lives together." The rest of the email is like a love letter, how important we have been to her, I loved you and I love you... She could have gone to the uni with a great package since she has an excellent academic record as well as social activities. But she wanted a brand name. We weren't sure if we could really afford it until we saw the package from the school. It was not surprising so we let her attend this current one in New England. She told me the school is full of rich kids whose parents pay the entire tuition. She was complaining how she had to work on campus because we are poor. Well, let her learn and be really independent since she claims her full independent status from us by not contacting us at all nor listening to any of our advice on her treatment/recovery. I read somewhere you have to be 24 to be eligible for the state aid. She is turning 21 next summer. We will write to the University to explain in our situation, see what they say and go from there. When she left home for this man she met in the internet just before she was onto college (she left home because she hated being with us), we could have made a decision not to send her the school overseas. We are a loss what to do for her right now, however, have all the regrets to have come this far... but had it really changed our situation, no one knows. Thank you for thinking with me. We will spend many hours writing email to different places. How fun, huh? How sad... [/QUOTE]
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