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<blockquote data-quote="pacific ocean" data-source="post: 705273" data-attributes="member: 21010"><p>Susiestar,</p><p></p><p>Thank you once again for your reply. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>The Difficult Child was born in the US so she/he is considered to be the US citizen but she has not residency in any state. The University he/she attends has a non loan policy so they give a pretty good package to the students no matter what you are from. She/he has been receiving scholarships from the Uni plus some working requirements on campus. My husband has been helping her with the financing so I really don't know what's going on. But when he checked the site, it looked like we could not get away once we said yes we would be responsible for the child's tuition, however, they mention there are exception cases if the uni approves.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>The card is under her name. Because it's paperless and she changed the pass word to access to her account (she used to let me share so that I could warn her or transfer funds from one account to another), we didn't know what the charges were for. </p><p></p><p>We used to let her hold our family card in case of emergency but we took that away and switched it to the student status card so that she would "learn" to use it wisely. It turned out to be good. It's issued through a bank here using her home address here. When we received the unpaid bill, I called the cc company and they said we were not responsible. So we are letting her work on it like transferring funds from a bank in the US to the bank here. We know the card was invalid for a while and now it's terminated. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>She/he could write a book why we must pay the tuition. Now she is ccing her email to my husband and I already received two email about how well she's been doing. My husband asked her about her therapy/treatment on her mental issues. The she wrote her mental condition got really bad when we told her not to come home for holidays so she went to see a new provider. This doctor told her she has major depression and has been put on some medications (doesn't tell us the name of medications). We assume she is on anti depressant. That is wrong. This explains her strange behaviors in the past couple of months. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>I cry every day feeling miserable not being able to reach out. But I switch mode to concentrate on our daily lives. It's quiet and a bit lonely but we have been having a very peaceful time for the end year/new year break. We will always love her yes you are right she thinks love =money sadly.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="pacific ocean, post: 705273, member: 21010"] Susiestar, Thank you once again for your reply. The Difficult Child was born in the US so she/he is considered to be the US citizen but she has not residency in any state. The University he/she attends has a non loan policy so they give a pretty good package to the students no matter what you are from. She/he has been receiving scholarships from the Uni plus some working requirements on campus. My husband has been helping her with the financing so I really don't know what's going on. But when he checked the site, it looked like we could not get away once we said yes we would be responsible for the child's tuition, however, they mention there are exception cases if the uni approves. The card is under her name. Because it's paperless and she changed the pass word to access to her account (she used to let me share so that I could warn her or transfer funds from one account to another), we didn't know what the charges were for. We used to let her hold our family card in case of emergency but we took that away and switched it to the student status card so that she would "learn" to use it wisely. It turned out to be good. It's issued through a bank here using her home address here. When we received the unpaid bill, I called the cc company and they said we were not responsible. So we are letting her work on it like transferring funds from a bank in the US to the bank here. We know the card was invalid for a while and now it's terminated. She/he could write a book why we must pay the tuition. Now she is ccing her email to my husband and I already received two email about how well she's been doing. My husband asked her about her therapy/treatment on her mental issues. The she wrote her mental condition got really bad when we told her not to come home for holidays so she went to see a new provider. This doctor told her she has major depression and has been put on some medications (doesn't tell us the name of medications). We assume she is on anti depressant. That is wrong. This explains her strange behaviors in the past couple of months. I cry every day feeling miserable not being able to reach out. But I switch mode to concentrate on our daily lives. It's quiet and a bit lonely but we have been having a very peaceful time for the end year/new year break. We will always love her yes you are right she thinks love =money sadly. [/QUOTE]
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