difficult child comes for his weekend visit tomorrow and can i say I'm once again not ready. I talked to his counselor and told him of my concerns but I really don't think he gets it. So here we go difficult child will come home and hit the door to talk with his freinds. And yes no matter what rules I put down he will still do what he wants. NOTHING has changed. I have to be around because he is home but he doesn't seem to get the fact that he has to stay with me and have a curfew of 7pm (first I've heard of this curfew since the other day) No way will he follow that. I again feel trapped in my home. Can't leave because difficult child is home and he will refuse to go any place I want to go.(except for shopping which I told him I have no money to do) husband says he won't let difficult child take over his weekend again, he is going to the camp ground (we keep our camper there) difficult child already says he is not going there because it's not something he likes to do. I can't leave him here and I can't make him go. HE JUST WILL NOT DO IT!!!! no matter what I say. I HATE THIS SITUATION, HE IS TOTALLY TAKING OVER AGAIN. i GET SO STRESSED AND ANGRY EVERY TIME THIS COMES AROUND. I know I wrote basically the same post with the last home visit I am just at a loss.