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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 694775" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Your mom is old. is there value in shunning her completely now? This helps you how?</p><p></p><p>I am not a fan of totally shunnung anyone who didn't abuse you or shun you first. I don't know the specifics here, but I wonder what could be so bad that you made it with her 50 plus years yet would pull the plug on her while she is in her 70s or 80s.</p><p></p><p>None of us shunned our mothers. Mine shunned me and would not let me back in, not the other way around. I look back and its sad to me she did this.</p><p></p><p>in my opinion if you needed to cut the cord, due to severe abuse, then it should have been done when both of you were younger and physically healthier. Not at the tail end of her life. I don't understand this at all. You can pull back a bit without doing a full shun. I feel cold just thinking about doing something I feel is so cold. The timing is horrible.</p><p></p><p>I have never heard of motherearth or fathersun. New to me and in my opinion not so wise if they support this late-in-life kiss off. This is a forum talking about our families and sometimes it wasnt pretty. But you wont read about us shunning our mothers, even though we wish they could have been more loving toward us.</p><p></p><p>Jmo</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 694775, member: 1550"] Your mom is old. is there value in shunning her completely now? This helps you how? I am not a fan of totally shunnung anyone who didn't abuse you or shun you first. I don't know the specifics here, but I wonder what could be so bad that you made it with her 50 plus years yet would pull the plug on her while she is in her 70s or 80s. None of us shunned our mothers. Mine shunned me and would not let me back in, not the other way around. I look back and its sad to me she did this. in my opinion if you needed to cut the cord, due to severe abuse, then it should have been done when both of you were younger and physically healthier. Not at the tail end of her life. I don't understand this at all. You can pull back a bit without doing a full shun. I feel cold just thinking about doing something I feel is so cold. The timing is horrible. I have never heard of motherearth or fathersun. New to me and in my opinion not so wise if they support this late-in-life kiss off. This is a forum talking about our families and sometimes it wasnt pretty. But you wont read about us shunning our mothers, even though we wish they could have been more loving toward us. Jmo [/QUOTE]
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