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Concerned about my friend and her drug addicted son.
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<blockquote data-quote="WorriedFriend" data-source="post: 698960" data-attributes="member: 20745"><p>No offense taken. I came here for help and advice and you all have been wonderful!! </p><p>I never really expected anything in return from Kim for all I did for her. I did do it from a heart of love. She is precious to me and I love her so much. I knew she didn't really have anything to offer me. I just wanted to see her happy because she's had such a hard life all of her life. </p><p>In the letter I sent her 3 weeks ago I told her that I did what I did to try to bring some joy and happiness into her life. I also told her that I've realized that that's not my job but it's her responsibility to make the choices that will make her happy and if she so chooses to be miserable that's her choice too. I also told her that I had to make decisions to be happy too and part of that decision was to stop enabling others, including her and her son. </p><p>I remember at one point during our friendship she told me that her mind and thinking where so off (and believe me, it is) to please tell her if I see that she is about to make a bad decision. I honored her request and told her she was making a bad decision concerning her son. </p><p>I have completely cut Kim out of my life...no contact at all in the last 3 weeks. I still love and care about her though. It's hard to adjust to when she used to call me everyday and I would see her at least once or twice a week. It's almost like having a death in the family. </p><p>Again, you all have been <u>great</u> and I really do appreciate all of the advice!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="WorriedFriend, post: 698960, member: 20745"] No offense taken. I came here for help and advice and you all have been wonderful!! I never really expected anything in return from Kim for all I did for her. I did do it from a heart of love. She is precious to me and I love her so much. I knew she didn't really have anything to offer me. I just wanted to see her happy because she's had such a hard life all of her life. In the letter I sent her 3 weeks ago I told her that I did what I did to try to bring some joy and happiness into her life. I also told her that I've realized that that's not my job but it's her responsibility to make the choices that will make her happy and if she so chooses to be miserable that's her choice too. I also told her that I had to make decisions to be happy too and part of that decision was to stop enabling others, including her and her son. I remember at one point during our friendship she told me that her mind and thinking where so off (and believe me, it is) to please tell her if I see that she is about to make a bad decision. I honored her request and told her she was making a bad decision concerning her son. I have completely cut Kim out of my life...no contact at all in the last 3 weeks. I still love and care about her though. It's hard to adjust to when she used to call me everyday and I would see her at least once or twice a week. It's almost like having a death in the family. Again, you all have been [U]great[/U] and I really do appreciate all of the advice!! [/QUOTE]
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