The title says it all! I am confused, and dont really know where to begin to get my step son an IEP. With my older boy, he had many of the autistic traits, along with ADHD traits, that made him easily qualify for an IEP. He lucked out and we got a really great Special Education teacher that got us into the Special Education program, and helped him immensely. For the second boy, I dont even know where to begin. He will be changing schools this fall, first off. When I go in and do his new student paperwork, do I jsut blurt out, 'not to be an alarmist, but my step son has very sadistic tendancies, and also can be a sexual predator at times'? Do I go for scare factor, or just try to be discreet? I dont even know where to begin!!! Help!