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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 688379" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Hon, no, it's not wrong. Sadly, we grandparents have no legal right to be see our grandkids. Seeing them is seeing dad and or mom too and is up to them. That means for many grandparents everywhere that if we have erratic, unstable adult children, we CANT really be there for our grandkids. I have two legal grandchildren I've never seen and there is no way I can force their parents to let me see them. And the parents have been so vile to me that I prefer keeping it that way rather than having to see my son and his wife too. In a way, I think it's easier on me to never have gotten involved so that I would bond with them and they'd be used against me. Your situation in my opinion is harder.</p><p></p><p>You need a break. Period. Take the break for as long as you want. If you feel grandson is being abused or neglected, call CPS. They will check in on family.</p><p></p><p>I hope you continue to be good to yourself. Your daughter has been so mean to you for no reason and she hasn't changed. You need to decide when or even if you want to deal with her and crazy boyfriend again. It is your decision. It is part of seeing your grandson. Heartbreaking really.</p><p></p><p>Try to have a peaceful night. Take care of yourself.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 688379, member: 1550"] Hon, no, it's not wrong. Sadly, we grandparents have no legal right to be see our grandkids. Seeing them is seeing dad and or mom too and is up to them. That means for many grandparents everywhere that if we have erratic, unstable adult children, we CANT really be there for our grandkids. I have two legal grandchildren I've never seen and there is no way I can force their parents to let me see them. And the parents have been so vile to me that I prefer keeping it that way rather than having to see my son and his wife too. In a way, I think it's easier on me to never have gotten involved so that I would bond with them and they'd be used against me. Your situation in my opinion is harder. You need a break. Period. Take the break for as long as you want. If you feel grandson is being abused or neglected, call CPS. They will check in on family. I hope you continue to be good to yourself. Your daughter has been so mean to you for no reason and she hasn't changed. You need to decide when or even if you want to deal with her and crazy boyfriend again. It is your decision. It is part of seeing your grandson. Heartbreaking really. Try to have a peaceful night. Take care of yourself. [/QUOTE]
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