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<blockquote data-quote="Confused" data-source="post: 655569" data-attributes="member: 18100"><p>Aww thanks Cedar <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> You are just beyond wonderful!!!!!!!</p><p></p><p>Well, to be honest, thats why I came on now. I have been sick( yes since January with various things.. I believe I know why but wont say until my tests get done and come back) Yes, this month is the big month, my Dr for a PAP and other testing, referral for mammogram and the Dentist!! Also a big month for both my kids as they go to the Pysch Dr, and hopefully start therapy after that Dr gives a referral ( for Occupational Therapist (OT) for both kids I think will help esp daughter) and anger management for son. </p><p></p><p>Son has actually been a little calmer with 30mg of Daytrana patch with his nighttime clonidine( still trying morning as he says it makes him tired and sick ). Son says he concentrates better with 20mg( I dont think so but, we are going to still play with medications) and if he is diagnosed with Bipolar( Explosive disorder they call it now?) then hes off the adhd and on the mood stabilizers. He is really doing better with his homework/schoolwork when on the patch consistently. No not As but I dont care as long as he has a passing grade Im happy! Of course I want better for him, but him to function is the most important as is for daughter! </p><p></p><p>Daughter... well, still trying to get her to want to do anything is not easy.. even if its with a couple friends shes known a long time and they still chat on the email. Schoolwork, well, she really needs to be more guided then other teens, so if I will basically sit with her and quiz her, read with her etc. If I ever get a job... haha.. I will help her at night when Im home and the day will be her free time. </p><p></p><p>So as far as family and neighbors.. omg where do I start. Neighbors are the same.. no difference. Family.. family family. Oh joy family. Well, gpa is mad at me because Im sick / have the kids to care for, says he will pay Dr but yet he really doesnt have the money to. So I have a sliding scale and free pap coming up!!! Anyways.. hes blaming us, mad at us because we cant be down there daily( my dad is actually) but I cant and wont. He says my kids are just kids have nothing wrong with them, its all excuses,dont blame the kids, son is just all boy, theres no such things as bipolar, or anxiety or asbergers where child can make it so many years then all sudden not.( She didnt all of sudden, there were signs from a little toddler but was said to be shyness... yearly got worse.. aggh. )( Also to if son has a tantrum walk out and go to his house.. umm, no, you cant leave a child alone in a tantrum!!! Whats wrong with him? )blah blah blah. Hes too young to be alone even if perfect child!!! I walked out this morning Im done. Ya, I aint perfect but I know my kids issues are not my fault!!!!! Well -"They inherited" issues,so still<em> from</em> me but not <em>because</em> of me!! Or like the neuropsychologist said sons neurons or something etc may not have developed properly when he was in womb because the whole pregnancy I had pain, bleeding.. he was premature. So I WILL NOT take the blame!Sis, same old issues. </p><p></p><p>Aunt, she is very upset of all of our issues of issues with each other and says please dont blame her most of it wasnt her fault as gpa says things etc. I do see her point and still love her as I do all my family..incl gpa. </p><p></p><p>Oh to add to the drama, our dogs have been keeping us very busy, they have a health issues..allergy or bacterial issues of sorts...</p><p></p><p>Sorry you all know the story already.. but, Im not giving up.. with my health im fighting! Kids, Im fighting for them and they are getting the help they need!! Many waiting times and appts but hey, its progress! I will own my own mobile home( ok, I gave up the idea of building from the prices LIL and Jabber said!! Yikes!!! ) I wasnt going to update until they had their first appointment there, but oh well I did. I miss you all and really needed to vent and talk to people who understand!!! </p><p></p><p>Hope you all are good, Ill slowly catch up!!!!!!!!!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Confused, post: 655569, member: 18100"] Aww thanks Cedar :) You are just beyond wonderful!!!!!!! Well, to be honest, thats why I came on now. I have been sick( yes since January with various things.. I believe I know why but wont say until my tests get done and come back) Yes, this month is the big month, my Dr for a PAP and other testing, referral for mammogram and the Dentist!! Also a big month for both my kids as they go to the Pysch Dr, and hopefully start therapy after that Dr gives a referral ( for Occupational Therapist (OT) for both kids I think will help esp daughter) and anger management for son. Son has actually been a little calmer with 30mg of Daytrana patch with his nighttime clonidine( still trying morning as he says it makes him tired and sick ). Son says he concentrates better with 20mg( I dont think so but, we are going to still play with medications) and if he is diagnosed with Bipolar( Explosive disorder they call it now?) then hes off the adhd and on the mood stabilizers. He is really doing better with his homework/schoolwork when on the patch consistently. No not As but I dont care as long as he has a passing grade Im happy! Of course I want better for him, but him to function is the most important as is for daughter! Daughter... well, still trying to get her to want to do anything is not easy.. even if its with a couple friends shes known a long time and they still chat on the email. Schoolwork, well, she really needs to be more guided then other teens, so if I will basically sit with her and quiz her, read with her etc. If I ever get a job... haha.. I will help her at night when Im home and the day will be her free time. So as far as family and neighbors.. omg where do I start. Neighbors are the same.. no difference. Family.. family family. Oh joy family. Well, gpa is mad at me because Im sick / have the kids to care for, says he will pay Dr but yet he really doesnt have the money to. So I have a sliding scale and free pap coming up!!! Anyways.. hes blaming us, mad at us because we cant be down there daily( my dad is actually) but I cant and wont. He says my kids are just kids have nothing wrong with them, its all excuses,dont blame the kids, son is just all boy, theres no such things as bipolar, or anxiety or asbergers where child can make it so many years then all sudden not.( She didnt all of sudden, there were signs from a little toddler but was said to be shyness... yearly got worse.. aggh. )( Also to if son has a tantrum walk out and go to his house.. umm, no, you cant leave a child alone in a tantrum!!! Whats wrong with him? )blah blah blah. Hes too young to be alone even if perfect child!!! I walked out this morning Im done. Ya, I aint perfect but I know my kids issues are not my fault!!!!! Well -"They inherited" issues,so still[I] from[/I] me but not [I]because[/I] of me!! Or like the neuropsychologist said sons neurons or something etc may not have developed properly when he was in womb because the whole pregnancy I had pain, bleeding.. he was premature. So I WILL NOT take the blame!Sis, same old issues. Aunt, she is very upset of all of our issues of issues with each other and says please dont blame her most of it wasnt her fault as gpa says things etc. I do see her point and still love her as I do all my family..incl gpa. Oh to add to the drama, our dogs have been keeping us very busy, they have a health issues..allergy or bacterial issues of sorts... Sorry you all know the story already.. but, Im not giving up.. with my health im fighting! Kids, Im fighting for them and they are getting the help they need!! Many waiting times and appts but hey, its progress! I will own my own mobile home( ok, I gave up the idea of building from the prices LIL and Jabber said!! Yikes!!! ) I wasnt going to update until they had their first appointment there, but oh well I did. I miss you all and really needed to vent and talk to people who understand!!! Hope you all are good, Ill slowly catch up!!!!!!!!!!! [/QUOTE]
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