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Consequences for AD/HD kids - any suggestions?
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<blockquote data-quote="kris" data-source="post: 19233" data-attributes="member: 74"><p><span style="color: #6633FF">i think you answered your own question when you said he lives in the here & now. consequences must be swift & immediate. do NOT consequence at home for things that happen in school. you know the saying *what happens in vegas stays in vegas*? well what happens in school stays in school it's their job to give consequences for poor behavior there. </p><p></p><p>i disagree with-the idea that you don't consequence for what they cannot control. how will they learn to control their behaviors if they do not receive consequences. disorders are not excuses for poor behavior. they have to learn early that their are consequences & that society will hold them responsible....if not now then when they are older.</p><p></p><p>have you read ross greene's THE EXPLOSIVE CHILD? he has an excellent plan that include not working on everything at once. pick your top two & when he's mastered one of them bring something else into the mix. one step at a time. slow but sure wins the race. OK, stopping with-the silly sayings lol.</p><p></p><p>nothing works overnight. this stuff takes time. you'll have steps forward & there will be slips back. consistency is the key.</p><p></p><p>kris </span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="kris, post: 19233, member: 74"] <span style="color: #6633FF">i think you answered your own question when you said he lives in the here & now. consequences must be swift & immediate. do NOT consequence at home for things that happen in school. you know the saying *what happens in vegas stays in vegas*? well what happens in school stays in school it's their job to give consequences for poor behavior there. i disagree with-the idea that you don't consequence for what they cannot control. how will they learn to control their behaviors if they do not receive consequences. disorders are not excuses for poor behavior. they have to learn early that their are consequences & that society will hold them responsible....if not now then when they are older. have you read ross greene's THE EXPLOSIVE CHILD? he has an excellent plan that include not working on everything at once. pick your top two & when he's mastered one of them bring something else into the mix. one step at a time. slow but sure wins the race. OK, stopping with-the silly sayings lol. nothing works overnight. this stuff takes time. you'll have steps forward & there will be slips back. consistency is the key. kris </span> [/QUOTE]
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