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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 75104" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>This only worked iwth difficult child when he was a toddler and I only used it for SAFETY issues. Actually I used it for running into the street and for reaching for the stove. As defiance crept in, spanking was used more. With little result.</p><p></p><p>One "therapist" who was highly recommended said if we used a belt (on our 7yo) and just hit him with it every tiem he was defiant it would work. He gave us lots of literature to read. It took less than a week for us to realize that difficult child REFUSED to let this alter his behavior. We realized we were going to have to hospitalize him with a beating if we wanted to change behaviors, and then it would onlywork until he was out of the hospital.</p><p></p><p>That ended corporal punishment for him. I used it very occasionally when J and thank you were little, for similar safety issues.</p><p></p><p>Mostly J owuld cry with a harsh look or scolding, and then she would change her behavior. At least enough not to draw our attention, but she changed it. </p><p></p><p>The sheriff here in our state has recommended a whipping, putting hte fear of God into our son. It wouldn't have worked. At that point we ignored the advice. </p><p></p><p>Would a strong spanking make your child better if he had diabetes???</p><p></p><p>Susie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 75104, member: 1233"] This only worked iwth difficult child when he was a toddler and I only used it for SAFETY issues. Actually I used it for running into the street and for reaching for the stove. As defiance crept in, spanking was used more. With little result. One "therapist" who was highly recommended said if we used a belt (on our 7yo) and just hit him with it every tiem he was defiant it would work. He gave us lots of literature to read. It took less than a week for us to realize that difficult child REFUSED to let this alter his behavior. We realized we were going to have to hospitalize him with a beating if we wanted to change behaviors, and then it would onlywork until he was out of the hospital. That ended corporal punishment for him. I used it very occasionally when J and thank you were little, for similar safety issues. Mostly J owuld cry with a harsh look or scolding, and then she would change her behavior. At least enough not to draw our attention, but she changed it. The sheriff here in our state has recommended a whipping, putting hte fear of God into our son. It wouldn't have worked. At that point we ignored the advice. Would a strong spanking make your child better if he had diabetes??? Susie [/QUOTE]
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