a difficult child? i know i must sound nuts with-all my posts. Yet truth is for years I have wondered about him somewhat. He is and can be the sweetest man in the world, will give to homeless people food from store, will give me his last dime to make me or kids happy, is an excellent provider. Yet husband has sleep issues, always has. that's part of why i'm always so tired. granted his schedule is rough yet he can't seem to unwind until 2 or 3 a.m. now, it's getting worse. some nights he crashes bigtime. he does work alot. yet he's very into routine or plans, can't stand when a plan changes with-o notice. our life is forever changing as you all know. He also has a short fuse, if you push hard enough or even slightly he gets very frustrated. hes' moody, he's impulsive i've come to notice. He can stand there and say how monies tight, than run to store to go pick up milk and return with-expensive vegetables for dinner, spices etc. sounds silly yet he really does do that. he doesnt sit well, he fidgets. he cant' sit for long. on his days off if he does during day he loses it, if he sits at night on days off he falls asleep. i've spoken to him about it. i said maybe your just simply exhausted, depressed over continuing difficult child situation. i dont know or maybe it's something more. i said i love you so much yet on your days off your grumpy and quiet moody and removed. it's like day and night between that and midnite. at midnite he's charged, happy, smiling, totally different. it could just be situational. yet odd thing is i'll tell him your being a bit nasty right now or short and he doesn't see it at all. truly. he really doestn' get how he overall presents at certain times. like me i get when i'm a total witch i really do. any thoughts??