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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 45411" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>I stopped taking difficult child about 18 months ago because he just kept</p><p>regurgitating the same issues over and over again and the various</p><p>therapist kept acting like it was the most important thing they</p><p>ever heard. Finally I said to the new school therapist "I really</p><p>do appreciate your caring and concern BUT believe me difficult child has</p><p>already discovered that his past traumas draw attention. It is</p><p>my opinion that it is time for him to ask help in moving forward</p><p>and not rehashing the past." difficult child was present and kinda smiled</p><p>as I said that. I turned to him and said "Son, you and X can</p><p>meet as many times a week as he chooses but you know and I know</p><p>there is NO value in rehashing your childhood with your Mom and</p><p>her sorry boyfriend...NONE."</p><p></p><p>Truthfully, noone seems to know how to help him move forward. I</p><p>don't know anything that I haven't already implemented. on the other hand I</p><p>change the subject the minute he begins to refer to the old days.</p><p></p><p>It cost me thousands of dollars. It's over. The future is sure</p><p>to hold many traumas...it's time to prepare for growth. DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 45411, member: 35"] I stopped taking difficult child about 18 months ago because he just kept regurgitating the same issues over and over again and the various therapist kept acting like it was the most important thing they ever heard. Finally I said to the new school therapist "I really do appreciate your caring and concern BUT believe me difficult child has already discovered that his past traumas draw attention. It is my opinion that it is time for him to ask help in moving forward and not rehashing the past." difficult child was present and kinda smiled as I said that. I turned to him and said "Son, you and X can meet as many times a week as he chooses but you know and I know there is NO value in rehashing your childhood with your Mom and her sorry boyfriend...NONE." Truthfully, noone seems to know how to help him move forward. I don't know anything that I haven't already implemented. on the other hand I change the subject the minute he begins to refer to the old days. It cost me thousands of dollars. It's over. The future is sure to hold many traumas...it's time to prepare for growth. DDD [/QUOTE]
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