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Mom? What's a difficult child?
I have no clue how to deal with this? It is K's inability to determine what is personal and what is private.
She also does not know when to leave someone alone, she will go up to ANYONE and just start talking and talking and talking... she will then shut me out and not listen to me, becoming angry at me if I ask her to stop or come back over to me!
(I know I talk a lot, but I think you all are my friends!)
Today for example, we go to the little coffee kiosk down a couple of blocks from where we live, they have food and a place to sit outside.
Another Mom and her 8 yo daughter show up... It was just K and I. K straight up to them, dread, (they have not even ordered yet) "Hi my name is K, I live on a dead end street, my Dad is out of town, I have Roller Coaster Feelings, what is your name, I am 7, my birthday is in July, I am going to school in a little while, I am going to move to Tucson, I have a dog it is a Chesapeake, her name is Clemey, well Clementine, but we call her Clemey...."
Meanwhile, they are just staring at her, have not said a word, hew words are racing out. I am quietly saying K, please come here so they can order. She glares at me. She just stands and stares at them... the Mom finally talks to her. I have to make conversation... They ended up being nice, but the girl never talked to K. K basically kept talking.
She does this all of the time, interrupts, talks to strangers, tells people things I would prefer her not to.
We have done social stories, had long talks, gotten mad, yelled, acted things out.... she has been like this since she could talk.
I hate it. People who don't see it a lot (mother in law, some friends) think it is cute. Sometimes it make me not want to go anywhere, a lot of times...
It is not. mother in law says things like, "She is just friendly" I think there are a lot better ways to show friendliness.
Does anyone have any ideas? We are going to look into therapy when we get to Tucson. I begged for social therapy here and no-one thought she needed it... the social issues go on and on...
She also does not know when to leave someone alone, she will go up to ANYONE and just start talking and talking and talking... she will then shut me out and not listen to me, becoming angry at me if I ask her to stop or come back over to me!
(I know I talk a lot, but I think you all are my friends!)
Today for example, we go to the little coffee kiosk down a couple of blocks from where we live, they have food and a place to sit outside.
Another Mom and her 8 yo daughter show up... It was just K and I. K straight up to them, dread, (they have not even ordered yet) "Hi my name is K, I live on a dead end street, my Dad is out of town, I have Roller Coaster Feelings, what is your name, I am 7, my birthday is in July, I am going to school in a little while, I am going to move to Tucson, I have a dog it is a Chesapeake, her name is Clemey, well Clementine, but we call her Clemey...."
Meanwhile, they are just staring at her, have not said a word, hew words are racing out. I am quietly saying K, please come here so they can order. She glares at me. She just stands and stares at them... the Mom finally talks to her. I have to make conversation... They ended up being nice, but the girl never talked to K. K basically kept talking.
She does this all of the time, interrupts, talks to strangers, tells people things I would prefer her not to.
We have done social stories, had long talks, gotten mad, yelled, acted things out.... she has been like this since she could talk.
I hate it. People who don't see it a lot (mother in law, some friends) think it is cute. Sometimes it make me not want to go anywhere, a lot of times...
It is not. mother in law says things like, "She is just friendly" I think there are a lot better ways to show friendliness.
Does anyone have any ideas? We are going to look into therapy when we get to Tucson. I begged for social therapy here and no-one thought she needed it... the social issues go on and on...