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<blockquote data-quote="Lil" data-source="post: 639285" data-attributes="member: 17309"><p>Thanks Albatross. I said to my husband yesterday, there's no way he's going to get her thinking we're the unreasonable ones here now. Not when we said right in front of her that we're willing to still do counseling and that we'll pay for him to continue. (Not to mention listing all the stuff he's stolen that we forgave him for time and again.) </p><p></p><p>He asked us for a ride again today, since it was on the way and we hadn't dropped his stuff off yet we said yes. Given the time, I asked if he'd missed dinner and he had. I'm sure he then expected us to go by McDonald's. Instead I told him he needed to start planning better and I hoped there would be some left-overs. He said there wouldn't be. We ignored him. He at one point wanted to just sit in the car and finish his cigarette and he said something like he didn't want to take up our time... it was clear he wanted to chat or something, but I said we had places to be. He asked where - we were going to an Irish pub that has his favorite food. I didn't tell him that, just that we were meeting some people. I hated to be so cold...but really, I was ticked off! He spends his days hanging out with one of his stoner buddies instead of looking for work, misses dinner, late for his chore (he washes dinner dishes there) and it just made me mad. </p><p></p><p>So I'm back to being angry at him...and kind of sad.</p><p></p><p>I hate this whole thing so much.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lil, post: 639285, member: 17309"] Thanks Albatross. I said to my husband yesterday, there's no way he's going to get her thinking we're the unreasonable ones here now. Not when we said right in front of her that we're willing to still do counseling and that we'll pay for him to continue. (Not to mention listing all the stuff he's stolen that we forgave him for time and again.) He asked us for a ride again today, since it was on the way and we hadn't dropped his stuff off yet we said yes. Given the time, I asked if he'd missed dinner and he had. I'm sure he then expected us to go by McDonald's. Instead I told him he needed to start planning better and I hoped there would be some left-overs. He said there wouldn't be. We ignored him. He at one point wanted to just sit in the car and finish his cigarette and he said something like he didn't want to take up our time... it was clear he wanted to chat or something, but I said we had places to be. He asked where - we were going to an Irish pub that has his favorite food. I didn't tell him that, just that we were meeting some people. I hated to be so cold...but really, I was ticked off! He spends his days hanging out with one of his stoner buddies instead of looking for work, misses dinner, late for his chore (he washes dinner dishes there) and it just made me mad. So I'm back to being angry at him...and kind of sad. I hate this whole thing so much. [/QUOTE]
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