difficult child has court this week for possession of THC (under half a gram) and bail jumping (due to para a "friend" left in his vehicle). It's his second court appearance. Because he's being tried as an adult, I haven't gotten any information form the court-appointed attorney. I have no idea what to expect as I've never been to court except for my divorce and difficult child's initial appearance. I don't think the lawyer is even planning to bring up the fact that difficult child completed inpatient treatment. I would love to talk to the judge, but I don't know if it will be possible. I had two long talks with the DA, but the lawyer scolded me for that. I just want difficult child to get the help he needs, but the lawyer wants to get him off the hook - his job I know. I also have a question that may sound stupid. What should difficult child wear to court? Boy, this is just not the stuff I thought I would ever be worried about.