I'm sorry for writing too much. I feel like I'm taking up too much space here but things are happening too fast here and it doesn't look like it's going to end anytime soon. Let me know if you want me to stop posting. Son is in a rehab program that was supposed to last 3 months. We got a phone call one hour ago saying that they're kicking him out because of nasty, outrageous behavior that escalated over the weekend. What they're describing isn't his typical behaviors, so I know he's probably been working hard trying to get kicked out. My husband is now on his way to the airport, to go there and pick son up. Son has been there for almost 3 weeks. And there I was hoping that that therapist got through to him. We talked to him on the phone and he sounded so angry. He said that we can't tell him where to go and what to do because "the fact that you paid money to adopt me doesn't give you that right" (don't know if I've mentioned it in the past - son was adopted from Asia when he was 5). I know he's trying to hurt us. I just don't understand why. I called in sick today and I'm planning on staying home and sleeping. I feel totally drained. What do you do when your son does not want to get better? We can't force them to change, change happens at its own pace, but what else is there to do? We plan on bringing him home and then working on getting him admitted to a different program. I don't know what else to do.