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Crisis after crisis.
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<blockquote data-quote="Rina" data-source="post: 653086" data-attributes="member: 18848"><p>Again, thank you all for your support. I haven't gone to the Al-Anon meeting yesterday, and ended up spending the night with my husband, driving around this city in hopes of finding him on our own. He's still out there and I feel drained. </p><p>His girlfriend's mother is still uncooperative (she actually said very casually that her daughter goes off to "visit friends" every now and then, no big deal), and the police are sympathetic but not doing much. </p><p></p><p>I don't know why this crisis started. I keep replaying stuff in my head, mainly us moving around and the adoption issue (which I thought until recently that we handled well - son never showed any interest in learning more about his birthparents or about his country of origin, which we respected - we didn't want to push him. Was that a mistake? Is this why he's being like this?). I'm wracking my brain trying to figure out what happened and work out a plan for when we do find him. </p><p></p><p>I just hope he'll end up deciding he's had enough and come back home, like toughlovin's son did. I don't know how I'll handle this until then. I can't do anything (sleep, work, live) but than wait.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Rina, post: 653086, member: 18848"] Again, thank you all for your support. I haven't gone to the Al-Anon meeting yesterday, and ended up spending the night with my husband, driving around this city in hopes of finding him on our own. He's still out there and I feel drained. His girlfriend's mother is still uncooperative (she actually said very casually that her daughter goes off to "visit friends" every now and then, no big deal), and the police are sympathetic but not doing much. I don't know why this crisis started. I keep replaying stuff in my head, mainly us moving around and the adoption issue (which I thought until recently that we handled well - son never showed any interest in learning more about his birthparents or about his country of origin, which we respected - we didn't want to push him. Was that a mistake? Is this why he's being like this?). I'm wracking my brain trying to figure out what happened and work out a plan for when we do find him. I just hope he'll end up deciding he's had enough and come back home, like toughlovin's son did. I don't know how I'll handle this until then. I can't do anything (sleep, work, live) but than wait. [/QUOTE]
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