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<blockquote data-quote="PatriotsGirl" data-source="post: 653164" data-attributes="member: 15796"><p>We have all been in crisis mode at some point. Please don't feel bad about posting - that is exactly what this board is for!! Lord knows how many times it was the rope that I was holding on to... <3</p><p></p><p>My husband had adoption issues well into his life. He was adopted as a baby by the best family ever, but he was told about it very young and it caused him to spiral downward. Those issues didn't really go away until pretty far into our relationship. He would get especially depressed around Christmas, which was hard. I think he still deals with it at times, but it doesn't show.</p><p></p><p>My daughter never knew her bio. He never wanted anything to do with the pregnancy or her. I know it contributed to her spiral downward.</p><p></p><p>You can be surrounded by all the love in the world, but those adoption issues are tough...and it is NOT your fault...people should REALLY think before they have sex. If they cannot handle having a baby and raising that baby the best they can - they should NOT be having sex. Just because there are so many loving parents out there willing to adopt, that baby is STILL affected and all you can do is cross your fingers that the issues do not have a negative effect on their lives. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /> Just my personal opinion and thoughts...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="PatriotsGirl, post: 653164, member: 15796"] We have all been in crisis mode at some point. Please don't feel bad about posting - that is exactly what this board is for!! Lord knows how many times it was the rope that I was holding on to... <3 My husband had adoption issues well into his life. He was adopted as a baby by the best family ever, but he was told about it very young and it caused him to spiral downward. Those issues didn't really go away until pretty far into our relationship. He would get especially depressed around Christmas, which was hard. I think he still deals with it at times, but it doesn't show. My daughter never knew her bio. He never wanted anything to do with the pregnancy or her. I know it contributed to her spiral downward. You can be surrounded by all the love in the world, but those adoption issues are tough...and it is NOT your fault...people should REALLY think before they have sex. If they cannot handle having a baby and raising that baby the best they can - they should NOT be having sex. Just because there are so many loving parents out there willing to adopt, that baby is STILL affected and all you can do is cross your fingers that the issues do not have a negative effect on their lives. :( Just my personal opinion and thoughts... [/QUOTE]
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