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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 47392" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>N is a grudge holder, she always has been. At 9 she could've held on to one alot longer than your difficult child. (this she gets from my Mom, the queen of grudge holders)</p><p></p><p>I don't think this is a precurser to self harming. Probably what happened was that difficult child saw the rope, recalled whatever happened, and saw his chance and in his mind retaliated. Or like someone else said, he just gave you an excuse when you asked about it.</p><p></p><p>My difficult child used to distroy stuff all of the time. His bedroom walls were pocked with holes, you'd pick up something and never knew if it would still be working.... Nearly drove me over the edge til I discovered a neighbor who's boy did the same thing. 99% of T's wasn't even out of malice. And if I'd try to nail down why sometimes he'd come up with the strangest excuses. :rolleyes:</p><p></p><p>I'm sorry it's been a tough day. And for what it's worth, when my difficult child's were having trouble keeping it together they weren't allowed to have friends over. The last thing I needed was more kids to add to the mix. :faint:</p><p></p><p>((hugs))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 47392, member: 84"] N is a grudge holder, she always has been. At 9 she could've held on to one alot longer than your difficult child. (this she gets from my Mom, the queen of grudge holders) I don't think this is a precurser to self harming. Probably what happened was that difficult child saw the rope, recalled whatever happened, and saw his chance and in his mind retaliated. Or like someone else said, he just gave you an excuse when you asked about it. My difficult child used to distroy stuff all of the time. His bedroom walls were pocked with holes, you'd pick up something and never knew if it would still be working.... Nearly drove me over the edge til I discovered a neighbor who's boy did the same thing. 99% of T's wasn't even out of malice. And if I'd try to nail down why sometimes he'd come up with the strangest excuses. [img]:rolleyes:[/img] I'm sorry it's been a tough day. And for what it's worth, when my difficult child's were having trouble keeping it together they weren't allowed to have friends over. The last thing I needed was more kids to add to the mix. [img]:faint:[/img] ((hugs)) [/QUOTE]
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