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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 731386" data-attributes="member: 4152"><p>Darn. I wish I had thought of taking my mother’s maiden name much earlier in my life.</p><p>Now I have my husband’s last name. He is wonderful and I’m fine with that.</p><p>I parted ways with my father as an adult.</p><p>It was difficult at first.But, there is no doubt it was for the best. He was physically and verbally abusive to me. Not an ounce of remorse. Big time narcissist as well.</p><p> When he became elderly, I started calling him yearly to see if he needed anything.</p><p>When he was on his death bed , I did help out in the final days.</p><p>Like a forlorn child, I hoped for an apology.</p><p>None was to be had and he died.</p><p>It shook me up for awhile....he was more messed up than I even thought.</p><p>I did not mourn him as much as my horrible childhood with this messed up man. I did not have siblings. Probably for the best. I was a goody two shoes straight A student and he thought of me as a burden. Good grief!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 731386, member: 4152"] Darn. I wish I had thought of taking my mother’s maiden name much earlier in my life. Now I have my husband’s last name. He is wonderful and I’m fine with that. I parted ways with my father as an adult. It was difficult at first.But, there is no doubt it was for the best. He was physically and verbally abusive to me. Not an ounce of remorse. Big time narcissist as well. When he became elderly, I started calling him yearly to see if he needed anything. When he was on his death bed , I did help out in the final days. Like a forlorn child, I hoped for an apology. None was to be had and he died. It shook me up for awhile....he was more messed up than I even thought. I did not mourn him as much as my horrible childhood with this messed up man. I did not have siblings. Probably for the best. I was a goody two shoes straight A student and he thought of me as a burden. Good grief! [/QUOTE]
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