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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 60749" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p>{{{hugs}}} Currently, my H is 7 months sober and hanging in there. The final straw for me was in December when he was heavily drinking and controlling and yelling a lot and being downright mean to everyone in his path. I had detached, but forgot that difficult child hasn't quite grasped that yet so she got caught in the crossfire and wound up in a bad place. Then she discovered porn (a no-no around here) on his computer completely by accident, which threw her into a tailspin. I threw him out and told him not to bother coming back unless he was willing to get the help he needed. Initially, he did but he's been white knuckling it since February. He recently started drinking non-alcoholic beer. I am waiting for the other shoe to drop as I feel that drinking non-alcoholic beer is his first step towards drinking alcohol again. I realize it's hard for him, especially in the summer when everyone else is partying hardy, but he is supposed to be getting help via AA or a private counselor. That he's not making that effort spells trouble to me.</p><p></p><p>Self preservation comes first dear, and although it hurts like heck, I'm glad you're considering throwing him out. He needs to hit bottom and know that he's risking not only his life, but the loss of his family in the process. I hope he gets help. Hang in there and know that you're doing the right thing by your family. Hugs~</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 60749, member: 2211"] {{{hugs}}} Currently, my H is 7 months sober and hanging in there. The final straw for me was in December when he was heavily drinking and controlling and yelling a lot and being downright mean to everyone in his path. I had detached, but forgot that difficult child hasn't quite grasped that yet so she got caught in the crossfire and wound up in a bad place. Then she discovered porn (a no-no around here) on his computer completely by accident, which threw her into a tailspin. I threw him out and told him not to bother coming back unless he was willing to get the help he needed. Initially, he did but he's been white knuckling it since February. He recently started drinking non-alcoholic beer. I am waiting for the other shoe to drop as I feel that drinking non-alcoholic beer is his first step towards drinking alcohol again. I realize it's hard for him, especially in the summer when everyone else is partying hardy, but he is supposed to be getting help via AA or a private counselor. That he's not making that effort spells trouble to me. Self preservation comes first dear, and although it hurts like heck, I'm glad you're considering throwing him out. He needs to hit bottom and know that he's risking not only his life, but the loss of his family in the process. I hope he gets help. Hang in there and know that you're doing the right thing by your family. Hugs~ [/QUOTE]
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